Tuesday, October 16, 2012 - [the couple syndrome.]
Today I'm gonna talk about a kinda.. strange topic abit controversial maybe. I was just thinking about the "discrimination" between couples and singles. I mean I was just talking to a friend who said he doesn't really enjoy going out with couples .
This really got me thinking... I was a bit upset as well because I am attached too and he once said he prefers if we go out as individuals rather than going out in a couple. Maybe I'm confusing my you all. Anyway, the point is, so what if A & B are attached, does this mean that couples aren't able to go out with friends?
Why do singles or people who are attached but go out with another couple without their own partners feel weird? Why? Aren't we all people... why must there be this sort of barrier. I understand that singles will feel lonely and alittle disturbed around couples and couples may feel they want privacy. But I just don't get why it's so hard to get everyone to go out together. It doesn't have to be all the time, but once in a while?
I personally feel very upset everytime I'm with my boyfee and my friends say they don't want to go out together... the feeling of doing things together with many people is really a nice feeling and I guess not many people understand that. I guess people are selfish, on a subconscious level... I don't know how to explain it but it's just sharing joy seems to be something not many can do .
I always hang around a couple anyway, because I'm cool and I know them before they were a couple and they're still the same people. Just because they're together now, they haven't changed and I certainly don't treat them differently. I don't talk to them as much as I did because they need their space but I still get along them very well.
Haizz I don't know it's going in circles, don't know how to explain myself I just wish the world could be like the How I Met Your Mother Cast.. Ted and Barney are always cool with Marshall and Lily. Ted and Lily can go out together and it's no big deal. Robin can still chill with them even after dating both Ted and Barney.. why can't every one just be cool and get long comfortably like that. Why make things awkward?
Labels: awkward, barrier, couples, singles, third party
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